Some people fall into their careers. Cruel Reell’s career fell into her DMs. What started with an attempt to sell some old stuff on eBay has morphed into a full-blown femdom enterprise, establishing her as one of Europe’s most authentic and uncompromising dominatrices. Her secret? She’s not acting. For Reell, this isn’t a job—it’s a 24/7 lifestyle, and she’s just letting the cameras roll.
The Accidental Empress
Long before she was commanding subs, Reell was just trying to clear out her closet. Her journey into the adult world began with a series of bizarre but persistent messages from men online.
“I was just trying to sell some stuff on eBay,” she recalls. “As a woman, you don’t even need to be active on social media to get found — just being visible in a photo is enough. Suddenly I kept getting offers from men asking if they could come clean my apartment.”
After initially brushing them off, her curiosity—and a healthy dose of pragmatism—took over. “Eventually I said, ‘Why not? I don’t feel like cleaning anyway,’” she says. That one decision unlocked a new world. Eighteen months of real-life cleaning slaves later, she dipped her toes into the clip scene on German fetish sites, and her raw, unscripted style was an instant hit.
“I must have done something right,” she remembers. “Because I ended up right at the top of the rankings — just being me, without acting.”
“Oh, She Actually Means It”
If you’re looking for a dominatrix who will cater to your every whim, keep scrolling. Reell’s brand is built on a foundation of brutal honesty. She’s not here to fulfill your fantasy; she’s here to live hers, and you’re just along for the ride. This approach is a core part of the creator economy, where authenticity sells better than any script.
“My brand is about showing what real femdom looks like, not a fantasy version where the domme bends to the sub’s desires,” she explains. “For me, femdom means doing and saying exactly what I want.”
This commitment to reality can be a shock to the system for some. Her sessions are entirely spontaneous, a surprise for both her and her subs. There are no scripts, no pre-planned scenes, and no safety words discussed beforehand—a method she believes is the only way to capture genuine tension.
“They come in wanting to be dominated, but then they realize — oh, she actually means it,” Reell says with a laugh. “Some people can’t handle that. But the ones who can? They’re mine.”
A Global Take on Kink
Reell is keenly aware of how kink is perceived across different cultures, particularly between Europe and the United States. She notes that what’s considered standard practice in Germany might be seen as hardcore stateside.
“Normal BDSM in Europe would probably be called extreme in the U.S.,” she observes. “American subs always tell me they prefer the femdom scene in Germany, the U.K., Poland, the Czech Republic. We’re a little more serious about male education,” she smirks.
Interestingly, she says the dynamic flips when it comes to financial domination (findom). “European users tend to fantasize more, while U.S. users live it out much more. It’s almost the opposite.”
The Architect of Her Own Kingdom
Never one to follow the crowd, Cruel Reell is at the forefront of the industry’s shift toward creator-owned platforms. Like many performers, she’s building her own tools to connect directly with fans, bypassing the limitations of mainstream sites. Her latest venture, FavGirl.club, is a platform that lets creators host their fan clubs directly on Telegram, giving them full control over their content and community.
“I’ve been testing it for over a year, and I love it,” she enthuses. “It’s super comfortable for creators and for users.”
But she’s not stopping there. On her active social media, which you can follow on X (formerly Twitter), she’s teased two custom-designed sex toys in development: one for remote-controlled ballbusting and another she describes only as a “very mean accessory” for CBT. Her ultimate goal, however, is a physical fortress of femdom.
“All that’s missing is the right plot of land in the middle of nowhere,” she reveals, planning a custom-built house to live out her lifestyle 24/7 with subs.
Her advice to newcomers is simple and echoes her entire philosophy: be yourself. “You have to find your own personality,” she insists. “I watched a few videos when I was starting out, and they didn’t help at all. It wasn’t me.” Instead, she encourages experimenting and finding what you genuinely enjoy.
As she continues to build her empire, one thing is certain: Cruel Reell isn’t just playing the game; she’s redesigning the whole board. And her final vision is as ambitious as she is.
“It won’t be a normal place,” she confides about her future home. “It’ll be mine.”
* Photo from xbiz.com
